I’m 25, and My Mom Is 57—We Collect Designer But Love These Accessible Buys

We love a stylish mother-daughter duo, and there’s a new pair on my radar. Susie Cohen is the owner of a vintage consignment store with amazing picks, so it’s no surprise that her daughter Sophie (known on social media as Soco) is just as well-dressed. I’ve been enjoying seeing them hanging out and exchanging style tips on TikTok, so I had to learn more. 

How have you influenced each other’s personal style? Sophie Cohen: I think we both are always taking inspiration from each other when it comes to personal style. Sometimes, I will put on an outfit and think that I look like a spitting image of my mom. We both gravitate toward the same closet staples: a great baggy jean, an oversize blazer, and, of course, a pop of color. My mom says that I have inspired her to step outside of her comfort zone and dress outside the lines. Susie always looks the most chic, and I always try to emulate her energy when I get dressed in the morning. We are always discussing what brands we love and what pieces we want to add to our wardrobe. There is also nobody that knows my style better than my mom; she always knows what to pick out for me and understands the way I dress to a T.  Are there any items that you love to borrow from her closet and vice versa?  Sophie: Our closets are constantly interchanging! Every time I go home, I come back with a couple of my mom’s goodies. My favorite item at the moment that I stole from Susie are her classic nude-and-black Chanel ballet flats that she found at her store. I am very lucky that my mom has been so kind to pass down so many vintage designer purses to me as well. When I go to visit her, I pack light, knowing I will most likely steal her pieces and, of course, need to leave room in my suitcase for all the purchases from her store! Susie loves my costume jewelry, and occasionally, she’ll steal her shoes right back from me!  How did your vintage boutique come to be, and does Sophie ever help out with it?  Susie Cohen: Just like Sophie, I started my career in the fashion industry as a buyer at Bloomingdale’s. Such a full-circle moment! It has been such an incredible journey to grow Refind as it has become one of the top luxury resale shops across the country. Soph is constantly helping out, even all the way from NYC. Even before I owned the shop, Soph would go in there and style looks for social media content. She is always posting us on her social media platforms, where we have gained so many customers from. She is also our best customer, almost always dressed in a Refind piece. She has connected us with many NYC fashion-industry consignors and customers and is always sharing our story to her network. And of course, whenever she is home, she is put right to work at the store! She works right alongside me, selling to customers, taking over our Instagram Stories, and, of course, modeling in our famous live shows. As a true fashionista, she is always in heaven being in the store surrounded by so many fabulous goodies! 

Where do you source designer items from, and what do you look for in a good piece? Susie: We source items from some of the best closets all over the country. We have incredible consigners that send us truly incredible gems. We look for pieces that are current, in great condition, and we know our customers will drool over. We work with a lot of stylists and high-profile clients that are key to sourcing the best possible goods. We are also constantly gaining insight into exactly what our customers are looking for from feedback on our Instagram live shows and stories. We like to have something for everyone, as we curate a wide variety of contemporary, luxury, and up-and-coming brands at all different price points.  Now before we begin, describe your style in just a few sentences.  Sophie: My style is extremely girly, colorful, and funky. I gravitate toward special, unique pieces. I always love to stand out in a crowd. I shop pretty much entirely secondhand to curate eclectic looks that speak to my vibrant personality. I love using my style as a way to express myself and the things I love with the world. And of course, we can’t forget about the color pink that makes up over half of my closet.  Susie: My style is very joyful and fun yet chic and classic. I love to mix pieces that normally wouldn’t go together and incorporate pops of color. A great sneaker, white button-down, and pair of jeans are essentials to my everyday wardrobe. I love mixing high and low items. Below, shop Sophie’s and Susie’s picks:

“Ballet flats are my absolute favorite shoe to wear at the moment. They instantly make an outfit chic. I’m loving them in metallics, and these silver ones are perfect for every season.” — Sophie

“You can wear this top in so many ways, tuck it into a jean, throw it over a bathing suit! Such a classic, versatile piece.” — Susie

“I love to wear conversation pieces, and this Jacquemus tee is definitely sure to get a reaction out of everyone in the room. It is the perfect pop of pink and will definitely be an It tee for the summer.” — Sophie

“In my opinion, no outfit is complete without wide-leg crop denim.” — Susie

“The perfect white tee never goes out of style.” — Susie

“This dress is so easy and fun. The smocking, the cut, and the color give it the perfect girly Barbiecore touch. I need this in my closet!” — Sophie

“A graphic tee is such a staple in my closet. I love to wear them with jeans, a blazer, with a fun maxi skirt… Also, I have a weakness for anything that says NYC.” — Susie

“I feel my most comfortable and confident in a great pair of baggy jeans. They can be dressed up or down for almost every occasion. These are the perfect fit and wash.” — Sophie

“A Chanel-inspired shoe is always a good idea.” — Susie

“I get so many compliments on this bracelet. It looks very expensive at a great price!” — Susie

“My outfit is never complete without a fun sunny. Sunglasses always take your look to the next level. I love the color and shape of these for a pop.” — Sophie

“There’s nothing that makes me feel more ready to take on the day than a great blazer. This is a perfect classic option, and I love the gold-tone buttons.” — Susie

“I am a true girly girl at heart and love wearing pieces that bring out my feminine side. This perfect white top is exactly that piece. Such a great item to have in your closet!” — Sophie

“I am loving the crochet trend for summer, and this hat is absolutely perfect for the beach or even a sunny weekend stroll in the city.” — Sophie

“If you know me, you know I love to have a good time. When I go out at night, I love to wear pieces that make me feel extra confident. This bustier top perfectly does that job.” — Sophie

“I am a huge fan of mixing gold and silver. I think it automatically makes your outfit funky and interesting. This choker is the perfect piece to tie together any look.” — Sophie

“A statement earring totally elevates any look. The sparkle, the heart shape, the chunky vibe! These are just perfect.” — Sophie

“I love a good sandal for all of my denim and dresses! These are the perfect neutral option that goes with everything.” — Susie

“After a long day of work, there is nothing I love more than getting into my Ugg Slippers.” — Susie

“I am a strong believer that every girl needs a good kitten heel in her closet. The vintage vibe of the denim paired with the rosette trend here is absolutely everything. Plus, the fact that they are pink! I need!” — Sophie

“I love a good luxury sweatshirt. Comfy yet stylish, my perfect pair!” — Susie

“I love a good designer deal. This Missoni scarf is the perfect accessory to funk up any outfit.” — Susie

“I have been so into a chic tweed moment these days. This jacket is giving me all of the Sofia Richie vibes in the best possible way.” — Sophie

“Wearing colorful pieces brings me so much joy! This tote is the perfect happy piece.” — Susie

“I am a huge animal-print girl. I also love having a fun hat for those days when I don’t feel like doing my hair. This one is too fun!” — Susie

“I absolutely love playing with color. This skirt is such a cool statement piece. I would rock this with a kitten heel, white tank, and mini bag strutting around the city.” — Sophie

“A great colorful sweater is truly a staple in my wardrobe. This cardigan would instantly make my day happier!” — Susie

“A great lace slip is such an essential in my wardrobe. Classic, timeless, and sexy. I love the red-and-pink color combo here. This can be styled in so many different ways!” — Sophie

“Automatic cool-girl status and the most comfortable shoe in my closet!” — Susie

“Sequins make up a huge portion of my closet, and I always love to sparkle! I love the sequins on an unexpected silhouette here. This is such a fun, flattering piece!” — Sophie

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