In our Ask a Stylist series, we’re tapping a new expert each month to weigh in with all of their style insights. Return for a professional’s perspective on what to know in fashion.
TikTok has opened up a fresh space to discuss a range of topics in new ways—among them, fashion. Creators are touching on fashion in a range of ways, but stylist and TikTok “fashion teacher” Allison Bornstein’s conversations about style and shopping have especially resonated. Earlier this year, we spoke with Bornstein about her “three-word method” to find your personal style—an approach that boils down to finding three words that describe your current style and the style that you aspire to have—as it went TikTok viral.
Now, the stylist has a new method that’s gaining attention on TikTok that dissects pieces to figure out if they’re trendy or timeless. Her “three-question method” involves asking yourself three key questions to decide whether something is a fleeting trend or if it is a piece worth purchasing that has staying power. e about your three-question method for figuring out if something is timeless or trendy. “I advise clients on a lot of purchases and they often will ask me if something is just a trend or if it is worth purchasing,” Bornstein tells Who What Wear. “I like to try to help them make smart shopping decisions and avoid buying things that they will tire of or won’t wear so I usually walk them through these questions.” Ahead, see more on her “three-question method” that can help you make smart purchases, whether it’s a new pair of sneakers or the right loafer silhouette.
Ahead, Allison Bornstein dives into her “three-question method”, explaining the key things to ask yourself about a specific piece to figure out if the purchase is timeless or trendy.
Question 1: Would you have worn the piece last year? “Essentially, this is meant to help us understand if we are just seeing this a lot on Instagram and are being influenced to purchase it or if it is something that you would have wanted before seeing others wear it,” Bornstein explains. “I feel like with Instagram, we will see a specific bag or shoe or pieces a ton and then it sort of gets into our subconscious and we can convince ourself that we need it when it fact, we never really wanted it until we were influenced. This also helps us look back and see if this is something that has been around or if it is a trend.”
Question 2: Will you want to wear it next year? “This is a big one. And sometimes I phrase it to clients like this ‘even if no one else is wearing it anymore, would you still want to wear it?'” say Bornstein. “This helps us take a beat and reflect if we will actually want to commit to wearing this piece or if it’s just an impulse.”
Question 3: If the trend returns later, will you wear this exact piece? “Basically, if you don’t wear the item for a while and it comes back in fashion (everything does eventually!) will you want to wear this exact piece? Or will you want to get a more ‘updated’ version. If you would want to get an updated version than maybe it’s a sign that the silhouette or color is not timeless,” Bornstein shares. “I like to call this ‘minting our own vintage’ because we are holding onto things that we will want to wear again. It is sustainable and helps create a functional and timeless wardrobe.”
After explaining how the “three-question method” works, I was interested to see how it would work in practice. Ahead, Bornstein applied her method to some specific fashion items to figure out if purchasing them would feel timeless or trendy. It’s worth noting, however, that she points out everyone will arrive at a different conclusion, based on what works for their personal style. The items here are pieces Bornstein thinks would be timeless buys for her wardrobe, whereas a teddy jacket didn’t make the cut since it’s a piece she doesn’t envision in her wardrobe five years from now.
Would I have worn them last year?For me, I think I would! I like a western influence and I feel like I could have gotten a pair at a vintage shop which is also a good sign of timelessness… they have been worn and recycled for years! Would I want to wear them next year?Yes! Will I keep these exact ones?Yes! I think if you get a pair that are plain and simple you will def be inclined to keep them in your closet for when they come back around. In fact, I have a pair of shorter black Luchesse cowboy boots that I have had for at least 8 years! I have to break those out.
Would I have worn them last year?Yes! And I can pull up a bunch of images of icons throughout the years wearing them . Would I want to wear them next year?Yes! I think they will not look out of place if I am wearing cat eye sunglasses even if everyone else has moved on to a different shape! Will I keep these exact ones?Yes. I have my Saint Laurent black cat eye sunglasses that I have had for years and although I don’t wear them much, I break them out and don’t feel like I need new cat eye glasses because these still feel relevant aka…they are timeless!
Would I have worn them last year?Yes. Would I want to wear them next year?Yes, I love leather and love blazers and even if other people aren’t wearing them as much, it feels like it goes with my vibe and my 3 words so yes, I will wear. Will I keep these exact ones?Yes! Leather gets better with age too so I think it would be the perfect thing to put aside and revisit in a few years if I get sick of it for now!
