Because my life revolves around anything and everything beauty, it’s not too surprising that my non-beauty industry friends and family members come to me first for every beauty-related question that comes to mind—be it whether or not a viral TikTok trend is legit, a buzzy product is worth the splurge, or how to correctly apply or use a new formula or tool. I’m everyone’s beauty rock, and I love it.
Recently, I was talking to one friend about how our beauty routines and product preferences have evolved and shifted as we’ve gotten older, and the longer we were talking, the more I realized that quite a few of the practices and products I used to live and die by aren’t really a part of my schtick any more. So, because, it’s what I do, I decided to write a story about it. Keep scrolling for seven beauty products or practices I’ve officially retired, (and recommend my friends retire also), and what I like to use instead.
Don’t get it twisted—I still love the drama of liquid liner, and I keep a handful at all times in my makeup bag. However, over the years, I’ve found myself prioritizing silky, easy-to-glide-and-manipulate liners over comparably harsher, better-not-eff-it-up-up liquid formulas. Not only are the former more user-friendly and easy to blend and adjust until you’re satisfied with the shape and pigment payoff of your work, but the overall finish just looks softer and more natural to me, a vibe I’m loving more and more as I get a little older. So many of my friends feel intimidated by liquid formulas, so I always suggest one of the below, pencil eyeliners instead. (I’ve yet to receive anything other than positive feedback!) A hack I love? Tracing over my penciled-in job with some liquid liner in the same shade if I want a little extra oomph—like before a night out or event. That way, you’re getting the application ease of a pencil, but the color saturation and staying power of a liquid.
Redness, acne scars, dark spots, and shadows, all of the above used to make me cling to my collection of full coverage foundations with an ironclad grip. Until I started using color-correctors pre-foundation, that is. By using these formulas specifically meant to camouflage and counteract unwanted pigment, you’re able to effortlessly even out your complexion before you start going in with foundation and concealer. This was huge for me because not only do I now need less product in general (which makes my face look less maks-like), but I now feel way more comfortable opting for sheerer base formulas like skin tints, tinted moisturizer, BB Creams, and CC Creams.
This is a bit of personal preference, but as someone who is extremely lazy (and hates rinsing, washing, and re-rinsing my hair) I pretty much never use traditional hair masks anymore. I’m all about efficiency and results (as are most of my friends) so I’ll either reach for a pre-shampoo mask I can slap onto my hair for a half-hour before I do my twice-weekly wash ritual, or I skip over all of the extra hub-bub and use a high-quality leave-in post-shower on my damp strands. A few of my favorites are below, and all of them enhance shine, softness, and manageability, while also strengthening, mending, and protecting the hair. I mean, why would you bother with any additional steps?
Staying in the hair vein… I have ridiculously blonde hair and have been bleaching it for years. And to be honest, it’s entirely insane that my hair is as long, thick, and healthy as it is considering. Logically, speaking, it has no business still being on my head! Of course, I’m diligent about my upkeep, my colorist always prioritizes the integrity of my hair, I give my strands lots of TLC, and I mind my diet and supplement MO. All of that is good and dandy, but I swear the biggest ingredient in my healthy hair secret sauce is air-drying my hair in lieu of heat styling whenever possible. As someone who used to heat daily and then barely ever once the pandemic hit, I noticed a serious uptick in the way my hair looked, felt, and behaved very quickly. Now, whenever my friends are worried about hair loss or any other strand-related woes, I tell them to air-dry more and heat style less instead of throwing their money at supplements and other *sometimes gimmicky* solutions. Even if you just pick one of two evils—like skipping the blow dryer but using your hair wand once your strands have dried naturally or vice versa—I swear you’ll be better off.
I used to live and die by my setting powders, and honestly, I’m not really sure why? A) they added another tedious step within my admittedly long-winded makeup routine, and B) I never liked the way they’d settle a couple of hours into a sweaty night or show up all flashback-like in photos. Yes, I will sometimes dab a little setting powder on my T-zone or chin if I start to get the greasies, but I never use setting powder to bake my makeup or set my under-eyes or foundation/concealer anymore. Instead, I’ve found that when I simply take the time to find a super-great primer that will latch on to the products I apply afterward and prevent them from migrating, I am way happier with the results. Plus, so many concealers and foundations have the technology not to crease—Kosas is the best in that regard. If I really feel the need to add an extra layer of smudge prevention, I’ll simply spritz a setting spray over my face before I head out the door.
Everyone has different preferences when it comes to their lashes and mascara style of choice, but if you’re someone, like me, who wants ultra-fluttery, long, separated, and beautifully curled lashes that look like Bambi, you need to read this. My lash game has gotten so much better now that I know to prioritize flexible rubber brushes that easily latch onto, coat, and comb through every last lash. Honestly, I’d argue the brush you choose has more influence than the actual mascara formula. This type of brush makes clumps and flakiness obsolete, and you’ll also get a high dose of mascara onto your lashes quickly while having the built-in ability to comb them out for a perfect, doll-like result.
I don’t know why, but my friends and family members who wear makeup are always entirely convinced they’ll hate liquid eyeshadow. Until they actually do, and they decide it’s the very best thing since sliced bread. (I wis I was above ‘I told you so’s,’ but I’m most definitely not.) A liquid or cream formula might seem potentially more messy or intimidating than powder, but once you try it, you’ll realize it’s actually the complete opposite, and so much more user-friendly than powder formulas which can be hard to control and have a lot of fallout. I love that with liquid and creams you can just swipe or dab it where you want the color or sparkle and tap it out to your liking. It’s literally the easiest thing on earth, and since they’re sold individually, you’re spending your money on the colors you’ll actually use, and not a bunch of additional hues you’ll never actually touch. (One of my biggest pet peeves when it comes to overpriced powder palettes.)
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